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Bad Bosses are Bad for Business – guest post

I have always enjoyed Process Based Management and What makes a Great Boss.  It took me 40+ years to discover that the key to a great job is your boss.  Dr Zimmerman has some great advice and process check for Managers – Enjoy

Dr. Zimmerman’s TUESDAY TIP:

Bad bosses are bad for business.

What Dr. Alan Zimmerman Has To Say About This:

In a well-known Gallup poll of more than 1 million employed U.S. workers, a bad boss is the number 1 reason people quit their jobs.  As Gallup said, “People leave managers not companies … In the end, turnover is mostly a manager issue.”

It’s also a bottom-line issue.  A poorly-led workforce is 50% less productive and 44% less profitable than a well-led workforce.

And finally, it’s an emotional issue.  As Tim Pflieger, the founder of the Team Leadership Center (TLC) in Door County, Wisconsin, puts it, “We are the only species that elects, selects and appoints leaders who are incapable of leadership, and that wouldn’t be so bad, but then we let them hang around … Geese and wolves wouldn’t do that.”  Yes, we let them hang around and stink up the workplace and depress the workforce.

So that begs the question … “What do employees want/need from their leaders?”  I believe they want/need four things.

=>  1.  Direction

Call it vision, purpose, conviction, or direction, people want their leaders to have it.  And they want their leaders to lead them SOMEWHERE better than where they are right now.

Before that can happen, however, the leader has to create the vision, communicate the vision, and sell the vision, so everybody understands it and everybody buys into it.

***Provide direction by “walking the talk”

And a big part of that process will be the leader’s example.  A leader can’t expect people to listen to his advice and ignore his example.  As noted in a book called the “Balancing Act” by Patterson, Grenny, McMillan and Switzler, “The higher you climb up the flagpole, the more others can see your rear end.”

If you’re going to give people “Direction,” if you’re going to have a vision that enlists the full and willing cooperation of others, you’ve got to walk your talk.  After all, your employees are constantly watching you to see if you’re doing what you’re telling them to do.  They’re watching your “Direction.”

One leader thought he had a pretty good way to walk his talk and reinforce the “Direction” he was giving out.  So he purchased an expensive coffee mug with a fancy depiction of the vision statement for each employee.  It was his way of breathing extra life into the vision or “Direction” he was imparting.

***Provide direction by “talking the walk”

What he didn’t understand was that you have to do more than walk the talk … if you’re trying to lead a somewhat cynical or demoralized workforce.  You also have to talk the talk.  You have to explain the intentions behind the “Direction” you’re giving.  Otherwise, you’ll have a workforce that can easily misinterpret your leadership “Direction.”  They’ll read between the lines, inserting meanings you never intended.

That’s what happened in the coffee-mug situation.  Many of the employees assumed the coffee mugs were a thinly veiled cost-cutting device … because the new mugs were a full ounce smaller than the older ones.  They thought it must be an underhanded attempt to get people to drink less coffee.

In another situation, one executive had a vision of greater work-life balance for his workforce, and in his “Direction,” he urged his employees to balance their personal and professional lives, rather than sacrifice their family relationships for their work.  And to lead the way, he decided to take a month off and travel to China with his 19-year old son, who was about to leave the nest.

When the word got out that he was taking the vacation, several employees thought the executive was looking for other jobs.  Others said he was distancing himself from problems that would hit while he was gone, and others interpreted the action in even worse ways.

When the executive caught wind of the rumors, he decided it was time to talk the walk.  At the next all-employee meeting, he talked about the fact he hadn’t taken a vacation in 10 years and the price he paid for that.  He talked about how he sacrificed his family for his job.  He spoke personally about his relationship with his son and their 10-year dream of going to China. He talked about the value of work-life balance.  And then his people understood.

He followed up his trip by encouraging others to get more balance in their own lives.  He supported people who needed to leave a meeting a little early to attend their kids’ soccer game or attend a family reunion.  He walked his talk and he talked the talk.

When you do that, you give your employees the first thing they want and need from their leader.  You give them “Direction” … “Direction” they can understand, accept, and follow.

=>  2.  Trust

It’s the second thing employees want from their leaders.  They want their leaders to be “trustworthy.”  But what does that mean?

***Being worthy of trust

First of all, trustworthiness has to do with integrity.  As stated in the “Army Leadership Values,” integrity is doing what is right legally and morally.

Trustworthiness also has to do with courage.  As the “Army Leadership Values” go on to say, you need to have “Personal courage — to face fear, danger, or adversity.”  Or as Rudolph Giuliani states in his “Six Principles of Leadership,” you must “Have courage.  This is not the absence of fear.  It is the management of fear, of having fear and making the right decision anyway.”

And finally, trustworthiness has to do with candor.  Gut-honest candor.  Giuliani advises, “Communicate honestly and directly to your people.”

***Giving respect to others

So employees want their leaders to be trustworthy, but they also want their leaders to trust or respect them.  It’s the flip side of the same issue.  And sometimes leaders inadvertently disrespect their people and wonder why there’s so much tension and dissension in the workforce.

Roger Chavalier talked about that in “A Manager’s Guide To Improving Workplace Performance.”  He talked about a Coast Guard officer who was leading a group of trainers.  He was impressed by the group’s self-discipline.  They were all there and already at work when he arrived at 7:30 each morning.  To honor their dedication, he began arriving at 7:15, when they did.  Pretty soon, however, his trainers were arriving at 7:00.  The reason?  Their goal was to arrive a respectful 15 minutes before the boss.

Spurred by the desire to be #1, the officer began arriving earlier and earlier until he was getting there at 6:30.  At this point, his group had had enough and started showing up at 7:30, at the last possible moment.  After they all met and talked this out, the leader learned his lesson:  Respect respect.

=>  3.  Hope

It’s easy to say we’re going through tough times right now, but the truth is … we’re always going to have tough times.  And that’s why employees want their leaders to provide this third element … hope.

***Starts with optimism

Employees want a leader who believes a better future is possible.  Employees want a leader that ignites their optimism.  And people are inspired when they hear their leaders say something like Christopher Reeve did after he was paralyzed.  He said, “This appears limiting, but let’s see what can be done.”

That’s exactly the way Giuliani handled the devastating attack of 9/11 on New York City.  In his memoirs he wrote, “Be an optimist.  People do not follow pessimists.  They follow people who solve problems and have hope.”

***Continues with action plans

But hope is more than nice, rah-rah motivational talk.  It’s also fueled by clear step-by-step actions.  As Morten T. Hansen wrote about a Yale University study in “Collaboration,”  a group of students was given information on the tetanus disease, along with pictures of convulsing patients suffering from it. The students were then asked if they thought it was important to get a vaccination to prevent this disease.

Most everyone in the group said “yes.”  Then a portion of those students were given a map to a medical clinic where the vaccine was being administered.  They were asked to review their schedules and find a convenient time to get the vaccination.

When the researchers tracked the number of students who actually got the vaccine, only 3% of those who saw the pictures and said “yes” to getting the vaccine went to the clinic.  But 28% of the students who received the map to the clinic got the vaccination.

The researchers concluded that giving people hope was not enough.   They had to do more than indicate there was a vaccine out there that would prevent tetanus.  They had to outline the step-by-step actions … or the detailed map that had to be followed … before there was much in the way of desired behavior change.

So as a leader, you need to give your people hope, but you also need to show them what they have to do to make that hope become a reality.

And finally,

=>  4.  Results

People want their leader to bring about results.  After all, as executive coach Dan Coughlin puts it, “You’re not paid to do activities; you’re paid to improve results.”

That’s right … improve results … by bringing out the best in your people.  “Your job as a team leader,” says leadership consultant Adele B. Lynn, “is to help people live up to their best intentions.”

And that invariably leads to more training.  You can’t expect your people to do better if they’re not trained and equipped to do any better.

Unfortunately, there are some “leaders” who think they don’t have the time or can’t spare the money to give their people any more training.  They may even wonder if the training is necessary.

I can help you answer that question by asking you two more questions.  Do the majority of your people have talents that are not being tapped in their present jobs?  And are you under pressure to produce more results without hiring more workers?

If you answered “yes” to both questions, you automatically know two things.  First your people have unused capacity … which you desperately need to get the results you want.  Second, it’s time to start developing that talent.

In summary, employees want four things from their leaders:  Direction, Trust, Hope, and Results.  When you provide those four things, your people tend to stick with you, and they perform exceedingly well.  You’re creating an environment where excellence is automatic and prevalent.

One of my clients, Medrad, a medical imaging products maker, puts it very well.  As president and CEO, John Friel says, “I don’t do anything. I don’t make anything. I don’t design anything. I don’t sell anything, so the real work of this company is all done by other people.  My job is to create the environment for those people to be successful, and I believe if I’m out and get a feel for what the real workers are doing, then I think it enables me to do a better job of creating the environment for them.  Employees will know whether you’re living this stuff or not.  They’re very smart.”

Action:

If you’re a leader, ask five of your subordinates to grade you on the elements of Direction, Trust, Hope, and Results.  Ask them where you are the strongest and where you most need to improve.

Career Teen Insurance – Session 2 Lesson One “Introduction and Getting Ready!”

Question – before I get too far down the lesson path, do I have any readers?  If so, question – do you prefer smaller bits of information or the whole enchilada?  This time I am adding just about half of the session – vote:  smaller bites or whole enchilada?

Ok, so you are ready to begin.  You have always been a coach and mentor to your children but perhaps you have not thought of some of the coaching principles you have employed so I will just refresh your memory:

What is a coach?  What do you do? The International Coaching Federation has the following definition of what coaching is:  http://www.coachfederation.org/find-a-coach/what-is-coaching/

Key concepts to remember:

  • You are partnering with your teen in a thought provoking and creative process that inspires them to discover their God given gifts and talents and Life Purpose, so that they can find career opportunities that will optimize that purpose in making a living, and more importantly making a life that they truly enjoy and feel they are contributing to something bigger than themselves.
  • You are their Champion for Success and will help them celebrate wins, big and small throughout the process
  • Coaching honors the client (your teen) as the expert in his/her life and work and believes that every client is creative, resourceful, and whole.  I know at this age are they really an expert?  They at least need to feel in control of the process and not manipulated; they need to buy into the process and own the results.  You are helping plant seeds but they will bring forth the fruit.
  • The coach’s responsibility:
      • Discover, clarify, and align with what your teen wants to achieve-are they ready to begin this process of discovery?  Do they want to know more about careers and themselves?  If so, then it is a great time to begin.
      • Encourage self-discovery; – a main challenge in discovering who they are; to what purpose; their special gifts, talents, strengths and interests.
      • Elicit teen -generated solutions and strategies;  - well here is where the mentoring and guiding comes in – follow the lessons and guidelines, let them journal on what they are discovering and learning and
      • Hold your teen responsible and accountable- again these are their discoveries and the choice is theirs on what they choose to do about what they discover. Answers like I don’t know, how would I know are not acceptable – ask well what if you did know, how would you feel or where would you be headed – these help in accountability.
  • So your main coaching skills center around – ready for this?  Yes – Listening and asking the right questions and listening to the answers (yes what is said and unsaid). As we go through the lessons, you will discover more, but this is the basics.  If you want to know more check out “Co-Active Coaching” by Laura Whitworth, Henry Kimsey-House and Phil Sandahl.  In my opinion, this is the coach’s bible.

Spiritual Marketing

The following guest post pretty much sums up my marketing strategy and I thought you would like to know.  Will Spiritdancer has this posted on his website

Spiritual Marketing

By Spiritdancer http://dream-warrior.com/2010/05/30/spiritual-marketing/

Guest post by Ann Albers

I have often been turned off by traditional marketing methods. While they work, many have struck me as ways of manipulating people to make a sale, pressuring people to buy, or convincing people they had a need. It seems like so much work! And yet I get people starting businesses all the time who ask me how to market themselves. The answer from the angels is pretty simple: 1) Be yourself rather than what you feel people expect of you, 2) Do what you love and are good at, and 3) Find a way to let people know what you are doing without any pressure – just share what you do. In simply radiating our light and love out to the world – however we do that best – people who need us can find us.

I’ll never forget when I started doing readings in a local bookstore. I was a psychic in the window on the slowest days of the week. Hardly anyone came in! I had just quit engineering and left behind a nice big salary and I was terrified about paying my bills. Furthermore, I made only about $6 after taxes for a 15 minute session even when someone did come in! I prayed very hard. The angels gave me two tools to build my entire business. Simple as they seem, they both worked.

The first was just a little meditation. They had me sit quietly every morning, feeling how much I loved to help people. As I felt the love for my work, they had me imagine the light in my heart radiating out in all directions. I would let the light build until I was floating in a bubble of radiant light. At that point they told me to simply say in my mind and heart, “If I can help you with my work, and you will honor the exchange, please find me.” People started walking into the bookstore saying, “I’m not sure why I am here, but I think you can help me.” I knew I had connected with their soul and that the interaction would serve us both. Talk about angel marketing! Heaven always seeks to bring us mutually beneficial partnerships whether business or personal.

The second tool was gratitude. After each client the angels tasked me to drop into my heart and feel gratitude for the ability to serve that person. “Thank you God for allowing me to serve this soul. I am ready to help the next one.” They asked me to say this after each client. Discussions of money were not allowed in these prayers. Instead they suggested I focus on my soul’s true gratitude. I did love helping people so that was easy. As I focused on the service, rather than the money, two magical things happened. I felt rich because I was able to share my gifts with people and in this vibration people sensed that they would receive help. Secondly when I removed money from the discussion, fear went away as well. In the absence of fear, business picked up. Soon the two slowest days of the week became the two busiest days. Love is what built my business, not strategy, manipulation, glossy ads, or any sort of conventional means. Just plain love.

I also taught one-person classes when I started teaching. The angels taught me to value these experiences. We cannot judge the value of our work by the magnitude. We have to simply ask, “Am I doing what feels right in my heart. Am I sharing of my true self?” If so you are already right in God’s eyes. I needed to start small to grow in confidence, to refine my teaching style, and to begin in humility. Had I not done that I would not be able to teach the masses now.

So if you are starting a business or a project that involves others, center yourself in the love within you. Focus on the service and the joy of serving. And if you cannot find the joy, question whether or not you are doing what you are doing for the right reasons. It is your love and your joy that are the true abundance in the world. It is the ability to share of the God light within you that is the richest possession you have. In sharing of your time, talent, kindness, inspiration, or even simply your prayers, you make the world a better place… simply because you are in it. This is the true wealth that we all long for, and funny… when you feel rich with the ability to share, the universe somehow meets the rest of your needs as well.

Have a week of true abundance and let your light shine!
Love and hugs,
Ann

by Ann Albers copyright 2010

I am starting a series on Careers for Teens and hope to find students and parents of students who will find this both enlightening and useful.

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